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Learning how to swallow cum at the end of a blow job is an interesting topic. For some women, the thought is terrifying, while others find the idea both erotic and fun.
Play Around With It – After he ejaculates in your mouth, instead of immediately swallowing it, keep it in your mouth. You can then open your mouth to show him his load before swallowing it. Or you can swirl it around your mouth, so it looks like you are savoring the taste before gulping it down.
If you want to be even kinkier, you can open your mouth and use your fingers to play with it. As it’s so sticky, you can easily grab it with your fingers and then let it slowly drip back into your mouth. Another kinky way to play with it is by blowing bubbles with his cum.
I Love It! – If you aren’t too keen to play with his cum before swallowing it, but you do want to make eating his cum hotter than usual, then just make some satisfying sounds after swallowing it. Gently humming, “Mmmmmmmmmmm” or “Yummmmmm” after swallowing it is an excellent way to make it more erotic for both of you.
You can even go a little further by telling him how it tasted, “I love swallowing your cum” or “I adore feeling your cum trickle down my throat” or “Swallowing your cum makes me so wet.” You can learn more sexy and hot phrases to use on him in the Dirty Talking Guide here.
Lick It Up – Letting him finish in your mouth during fellatio is not the only way that you can swallow his cum. If he finishes somewhere on himself, you can still swallow it! It’s a simple case of licking it up after he cums, which can look crazy intense and hot for your man.
Facial Swallow – This last cum swallowing technique is going to be a bit out there for most. Allow your husband to finish by giving you a facial. Holding his dick while he does it will help you to direct where he cums on your face and prevent him from hitting you in the eye. After he blows his load over your face, use your fingers to scoop up all his cum from your face and then drop it into your mouth. Once you have all his cum in your mouth, swallow it and let out a satisfied sigh.
4. Help, I Don’t Want To Swallow His Cum!
You may be in a relationship with a guy who wants you to swallow his load while you may not want to do it at all. That’s perfectly fine. The important thing is to talk to him about it. Great relationships are based on mutual understanding and respect and great communication. I talk about the importance of great communication in Chapter 1 of the Blow Job Guide as well as in this article on sexual communication. You should never allow a guy to do something to you that you don’t want. Make sure that he knows this.
As with almost all safe sexual practices, my advice is to try it at least once with a guy that you know and trust, before deciding if swallowing his load is something you do or don’t enjoy. However, if you want to avoid risks during oral sex, then it’s advisable to keep semen out of your mouth completely<5>, especially if you do not know your man’s recent sexual history and want to make sure you are as safe as possible.
Some women can also have an allergy to seminal fluid<6>, in which case swallowing his cum should be avoided altogether.
If you plan on finishing off a blow job by swallowing your man’s cum, then make sure that you give him a great BJ. The rest of the Blow Job Guide including Chapters 2, 3 & 4 have great tips on how to give your man the most intense and satisfying blow job of his life.
5. The Health Benefits Of Swallowing His Cum
As I mentioned earlier in this guide, swallowing your man’s cum is perfectly safe if both you and your guy are healthy and disease free. In fact, it’s not only safe, but it also has a bunch of health benefits too.
You Should Swallow When Pregnant – Studies have found that swallowing his load after oral sex correlates with a diminished occurrence of preeclampsia<7>, a nasty condition that pregnant women sometimes get that raises your blood pressure and can affect other organs like the kidneys. So yes, swallowing cum is a healthy thing to do even for pregnant women!
Oxytocin aka The Bonding Hormone – Semen contains oxytocin<8>, a hormone that helps you to increase trust, reduces your fear and is also known as the bonding hormone (or cuddle hormone) which is great if you want to feel closer to your man.
Brain Booster – You man’s seminal fluid aka his cum contains a lot of nerve growth factor<9>, a compound responsible for the growth of neurons in your brain and boosting your brain health.
Staying Healthy With Antioxidants – Semen also contains some beneficial antioxidants like superoxide dismutase, glutathione, catalase<10>, vitamin C, vitamin E, pyruvate, and carnitine<11> and citric acid<12>, which all protect against damaging free radicals.
Live Longer – Your man’s load contains a compound known as spermidine which has been proven to have anti-aging properties<13>.
Electrolytes – A guy’s semen contains numerous electrolytes including calcium, magnesium, potassium, sodium, zinc and chloride<14>, which are vital for staying healthy, especially if you are an athlete and want to function at the highest level…Although rehydrating with a bottle of semen instead of your usual isotonic drink is going to be pretty awkward. By the way, these electrolytes are one of the reasons why your man’s cum tastes salty.
Sugar for Energy – Semen contains small amounts of both fructose<15>, and glucose<16> perfect if you want to enjoy an energy boost. However, the amount of glucose and fructose in the typical guys load is minuscule, less than 20mg per load, so you’re going to have to drink a lot to feel any sugar rush.
Protein for Bodybuilders – You will also find protein in your man’s semen<17>, which is vital for building a repairing your muscles.
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Hopefully from all this research, you can see just how safe and healthy swallowing your man’s load is.